Taking Charge of Janet Schlarbaum Success By Jerry Robkoff.

Be it in life or in business, we all end to start falling into ruts. Things either become a plateau, which means it doesn’t get better nor worse. Or, even worse, things start to slowly deteriorate, and we wonder what is happening and who or what’s to blame for this sudden or ever growing downturn.

The greatest asset and tool for anyone, wanting to expand and grow is to create positive change in whatever it is they are involved with. However, before that can even occur, it is vital that YOU take responsibility for that change and the action that will cause it. By taking responsibility, this means you are in full agreement and acceptance of the actions you are taking to create that change. It is so easy to lay the blame on things we feel we can’t control or on people we feel are either “out to get us” or beyond our reach. I hate to hit you with some cold reality, but that excuse just doesn’t cut it.

The ONLY way change is going to happen in your life is when YOU DECIDE to make it happen. It must be a very conscious and deliberate act. If you’re waiting for your ship to come in, let me tell you, it left port a lonnnng time ago. If you’re counting on luck, that lady is out dancing with someone else. And if you think someone or something is going to suddenly appear and wave the magic wand, you’re in a state of pure delusion, and you may want to seek out a good therapist.

You are the only one who is capable of changing things in your life. You really do have that power, but you must embrace it and accept it. You can, of course, change things for the worse, and that is also a definite decision on your part. However, I think it’s safe to assume that we want to create positive changes in our life and business.

The formula is really very simple. Map out your plan of action and decide to do it. By “mapping” I mean get a piece a paper and a pen and WRITE YOUR GOALS AND DESIRED RESULTS DOWN! I’m sure you’ll agree with the statement: “If it isn’t in writing,it isn’t so.” Don’t wait for that special moment or sign to happen. The truth is, if you realize that a change is needed, you’ve already received your epiphany, so run with it.

It’s perfectly ok to seek out help should your plan of action call for that. Just remember, though, it’s still up to you to implement and create your results.

See you at the top!

By Linos M David

There are many secrets in life. Though scientists have been conducting researches on human mind and body, they have not yet succeeded in totally revealing the mystery regarding them. There are certain secrets lying behind personal success also.

Earnest desire is the most important quality needed for achieving success in life. The raw materials, opportunity, resources, wealth etc are more than enough in this world. Personal success does not depend on chance, destiny, luck or good fortune. Rather it depends on goal setting, hard work, discipline, vision, responsibility etc. Human mind has tremendous potential. Our sub conscious mind acts as the life guidance system in leading us towards our goals and dreams. The most important thing that we should possess in order to become successful is to have specific aims and dreams. Our sub conscious mind should be fed with our aims in short phrases. If such phrases are repeated constantly our mind will lead us to our destination.

Success does not come overnight. It needs perseverance. Personality development, knowledge accumulation etc are indispensable for achieving success.

By John Watson

Recently, I heard a self-defence instructor describe how it took him a year to understand how to successfully throw someone of any size over his hip. This hip throw is now one of his favourite throws. He had not given up trying to master this throw but had stayed with the problem until he had conquered it. That is probably why he is an instructor rather than an ordinary student. Persistence helped him succeed. Most average self-defence students would not be ready to spend a year learning to do one technique really well. They would turn their attention to something newer and more interesting to them after a few minutes let alone an entire year.

To become extraordinary, people need to show extraordinary persistence, patience and focus. Even Albert Einstein, the great physicist, credited his persistence rather than his cleverness with his success in solving problems: “It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.” Many computer owners lose patience and fail to master the software they are using. I bought Mailloop, a powerful email software solution, several years ago but have not got round to using it even once. I failed to stay with the problem of learning how to use it.

I use aWeber, as my current autoresponder but I only use a small part of its powers as I have yet to study it for any length of time. I know enough to send you this email but that is about it! How, then, do I have the cheek to write to you suggesting you stay with your problems longer? Because I write to myself as much as to you or anyone else. If I waited until I actually followed my own advice, I would be in my coffin before I had written a single article! I am hoping that my own advice will eventually filter through deep into my subconscious and cause me to take consistent action. I hope it will do the same for you.

Good advice needs to be heard again and again until we take action on it. There are, for example, many articles on persistence but another one is always worth writing or reading for those who have failed to persist in some important aspect of their lives. If, like me, you have bought many cookbooks but failed to follow through on more than one or two recipes, keep trying. Spend a longer time on the problem. My brother is a great role model for me in this. He often borrows one of my numerous cook books and actually makes the effort to head down to the shops and buy all the ingredients and then painstakingly prepare them for a meal. He spends much, much longer on mastering the art of cooking than I do. My brother has become such an expert that my stepbrother will only eat a meal cooked by him. He laughs when I suggest he try some of my spaghetti bologna and will only visit my house when my brother is around to do the cooking!

I am happy to spend money on every new cook book that comes out but, when it comes to reading them and using them, I am not yet ready to spend the necessary time. Spending money is easy. Spending time isn’t. I have spent thousands of pounds or dollars on internet courses but have failed even to open many of them. Buying the courses is easy; studying and applying them is not so easy.

Of course, some people do not persist because they believe they will not succeed. They should persist anyway as that is the only way they will find out if they can succeed. If they do persist they may well discover that they can succeed beyond their wildest dreams. Try then, to spend much more time sorting out any problem that confronts you, whether it is trying to throw someone to the ground or learning how to put video on your website or developing the ability to cook a great meal. You may well be delighted with the results.

Janet Schlarbaum Persistence

By: Jason Osborn
Article Submitted by: Janet Schlarbaum

Success in life is great when it’s achieved, but you may very well know that success doesn’t come without some failures. To be truly successful in life it’s those times of failure that matter most. What you do will determine just how much success you will have. But how do you guarantee success after a failure?

The key can be found in a quote by Horace Greeley who said, ‘Fame is a vapor, popularity an accident, riches take wing, and only character endures.’ Character is the key to long-term success. Character isn’t always the source of failure but character is always exposed in times of failure.

If you fail in a certain area and you have a terrible character, you will have to have some major life changes in order to repair the damage that is done by your character flaws. But if you have a strong character you will be ale to rebuild success and, many times, be able to do it faster than you did previously. If you built success with the right character the first time, you already have a strong foundation to build upon.

You see, character is a funny thing. It will either be the bedrock that stands strong and helps you endure through all the good and bad times in life. Or it will be the quicksand that swallows up anything that you build upon it. However, the choice is up to you as to which type of foundation you want. To guarantee success after failure, the bedrock of your character must be built on integrity, honor, and trustworthiness.

Janet Schlarbaum After Failure

Posted by: Janet Schlarbaum
By Sri Nachimuthu

Success is a word, which is more liked and sought for by
everyone in the world, whereas failure is viewed as more
dreaded one and people want to avoid it. But basically success
or failure has an impact as such, on how it is defined and
understood. Success is generally defined as the achievement or
accomplishment of a task i.e. only the end result is seen and
not the means through which it is attained. Success can
beautifully be defined as the ‘Succession of successful days’.

Success actually is an outcome of short-term obstacles;
set backs/failures and more than success it is failures that
offer us a gift of learning. So failure can thus be defined as
an unexpected, short-term result that challenges our progress
and that which provide disguised opportunities for learning and
development. Failure is often considered as a misfortune,
rather as the seeds for tomorrow’s greatest success. Such a
positive frame of mind ability to see the magnificent in the
minimal and developing a vision of seeing the huge banyan tree
(success) remaining dormant and recessive in a small seed is
necessary. Failure is not a defeat, but it is a chance or
evidence to prepare oneself for a change or improvement. When
there is no failure or error in life, there will be no
change/correction and when there is no change/correction, there
is no learning and there is no increase or improvement in
performance. Thus successful failure is the failure that
provides more learning and serves as the foundation for future
success. Success is not really in how high we go up in life,
but how many times we bounce back when we fall down. So one
should always remember that success is just 1% that results
from 99% of what we call as failures. Success cannot be
achieved overnight and the basic formula for success according
to me is being HAAPPPY i.e.

H- Honesty

A-Ambitious

A-Attitude (Positive)

P-Patience

P-Persistence

P-Perseverance

Y-Yearning to succeed.

It is not always necessary that we should try to be a man of
success; the main aim of all of us should be rather becoming
men of value, which will eventually lead to a happy, healthy
and harmonious living.

Janet Schlarbaum Failing Successfully